How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 20.06.2025 00:11
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Can you tell me something about yourself?
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Why can't they repair the damage caused by Elon Musk renaming Twitter to X?
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Why is there so much free porn on the internet?
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Making more friends is a goal.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
In what ways does Islam oppress women?
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Do not set goals—set systems.
If my lovely sister sleeps with my boyfriend, what should I do about her?
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Why do some men love sucking cocks?
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
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Does not procrastinate.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
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Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Is there an MBTI personality that is more or less likely to handle stress?
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Ask yourself:
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
That's it for today.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Have you been with a stranger yet?
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Procrastinates a lot.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Hangs out with loser friends.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
What I need from you?
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.